My path to becoming an Orgasm Researcher started at the age of 16 with a book I found called “The Multi-Orgasmic Man” by Mantak Chia. I was fascinated by the exercises described in this book and the discoveries I made about myself with it. I remember the first time I felt a tickling sensation in my head after testing the “big draw” exercise where I set my intention on moving sexual heat or energy in my body.
However, in spite of the immediate strong impact this book had on me, for many years the question as to whether it is really possible to achieve this kind of multiple full-body orgasms without ejaculation described in this book remained for me unanswered. By the age of 30 I had gone through two long-term relationships and become a father but had not yet experienced such orgasms. It was not before the breakup of my second long-term relationship that something changed and one day I was standing in the bathroom doing my self-pleasuring ritual after my morning run and for the first time I experienced a full-body orgasm without ejaculation.
This experience that I had about ten years ago set me on fire to understand what made it possible to reach such a full-body orgasm without ejaculation and what other secrets lie hidden within my body and my sexuality. This was also the time when I have finished a PhD in physics about properties of semiconductor materials and was exposed to the way scientists ask questions and approach unknown territories. Seeing how little scientist really know but yet how precise they try to capture the underlying mechanisms behind the phenomena they observe inspired me to keep on asking questions about my own sexuality. The video demonstrations and coaching offers presented here are the result of these ten years of intensive exploration in this field with numerous workshops, educational programs, and exchanges I had with specialists on this topic. My last training was the Berlin Sexological Bodywork Certificate Training in 2016
My intention is to inspire you with this site to become more interested in your orgasm and where it may take you if you open yourself up to the mystery. It might not always be an easy ride but the awareness you will gain in this process will change your life for the better.
The way I see it we are all unique human beings capable to be in an intimate relationship to something greater than us. We are living in a paradoxical world where everything is in a continuous movement and at the same time there is something about us that rest in complete stillness. The flow of life’s inherent creativity and intelligence through me makes me a living mystery. I therefore often feel that trying to put myself or my work in words is only half true.
Nonetheless, here is a short attempt to describe my work. I am passionate about creating spaces where people can connect to the wisdom of their bodies and extend their believes about themselves and the world.
From 2009 till 2013 I have done a Fasciatherapy education according to Danis Bois, which has become one of the main inspirations for my work. This method combines soft tissue manual treatment, body movement, perceptual education, and meditation. It is a tool that brings people to release the physical, mental, and emotional tension in their bodies and I like to combine it with my intuitive understanding of the people I work with. If you are interested to get a session with me leave a message at the contact form.
I find that discovering and fully living our own sexuality is immensely important. When we learn to accept and integrate it, we can live a more fulfilling life and our relationships to other people become more deep and nourishing. In my eyes this makes life truly rich and worth living for!
My path of exploration in this field has only begun in recent years. Before that, I spent my time making diets, not feeling emotions, and trying to please everyone around me as much as possible. Magically, it was going through this life phase and finding my way out that brought me to where I am today and now I stand here as the founder of Sheflows and coach women to build a healthy relationship with their body and their sexuality…and I love it!
I got to know Moshe at the Berlin Sexological Bodywork Training in 2016 and since then we have a close collaboration. I offer for those who want to go deeper in exploring their own sexuality and work with me personal sexological bodyworking sessions. Feel free to leave me a message here or to firstname.lastname@example.org.